When I split with my ex-partner in 2016, I was tricked into signing a document giving her the samvær – or that the children lived with her. It was what the children said they wanted and failing to foresee the coming issues I signed, thinking it only applied for a month or two.
By 2017 it was clear that I was being completely shunted out of their lives. So I raised a case via borger.dk for increased samvær – greater access to see my own children.
A few facts on my children :-
- Girls aged then 16, 9 and 8
- Boy aged 15
and me :-
- English, but lived in Denmark for 6 years
- A fully present Dad their entire lives
- Still lives in the same town as his children
- Own my own home
- No criminal record
Silly me. I thought such a Dad would have no issues proving his case and getting access to my own children. How wrong I was, as you will find out in the following story of unfairness, incompetence and lies.