Kategori: Samvær

Samvær 5 – A twist

In 2017, I was really down. I thought I had lost my children forever and only my new partner being around probably saved me from doing something really bad to myself. In 2018, my ex began a new campaign to win sole Parental custody or Forældremyndighed. She contrived this through some incident where she tried…

Af admin juli 18, 2019 0

Samvær 4 – Case Closed

I got the final written decision “afgørelse” from Statsforvaltning. Nothing much to say, except after this I felt like I wasted 17 years of my life.They put heavy weight on the fact that it’s now October 2017 and I had not had fixed access to my children since October 2016. Let’s not forget :- I…

Af admin juli 17, 2019 0

Samvær 3 – Meeting 2

I went back to Statforvaltning after the first meeting and the interviews with my children. I was sure today I would get to see my children again. I was wrong, very wrong. I was given the full interview transcripts, in which my children had said they never wanted to see me again, they never felt…

Af admin juli 17, 2019 0

Samvær 2 – Letter

Letter 2 from Statsforvaltning is confirming the interviewing of the children to hear their views. Of course, what you don’t know at the time is that children as young as 9 are considered adult enough to decide if they want to see their Dad ever again. No surprise that when a child has been manipulated…

Af admin juli 17, 2019 0

Samvær 1 – Meeting 1

Statsforvaltning sent an automatic letter in response to my claim. The appointment date alone means waiting one whole extra month before I even get to make a case for ever seeing my children again. It also says at the bottom if you don’t speak Danish then you can request a translator. Foolishly, I did not…

Af admin juli 17, 2019 0

Visit Review

Dear {mother}, Thank you for granting access to {2nd daughter} and {3rd daughter} to come to my house and see my mother, sister and nephew for 3 hours on Sunday 7.8.17. The evening went extremely well, with hotdogs for dinner, followed by games of bingo and sweets, then finally their return at the agreed time…

Af admin juli 15, 2019 0

Samvær

When I split with my ex-partner in 2016, I was tricked into signing a document giving her the samvær – or that the children lived with her. It was what the children said they wanted and failing to foresee the coming issues I signed, thinking it only applied for a month or two. Huge mistake.…

Af admin juli 14, 2019 0